Lou Salomé

LebensgebetGewiß, so liebt ein Freund den Freund,Wie ich Dich liebe, Rätselleben –Ob ich in Dir gejauchzt, geweint, Ob Du mir Glück, ob Schmerz gegeben. Ich liebe Dich samt Deinem Harme;Und wenn Du mich vernichten mußt,Entreiße ich mich Deinem ArmeWie Freund sich reißt von Freundesbrust. Mit ganzer Kraft umfaß ich Dich!Laß Deine Flammen mich entzünden,Laß noch in Glut des Kampfes michDein Rätsel tiefer nur ergründen. Jahrtausende zu sein! zu denken!Schließ mich in beide Arme ein:Hast Du kein Glück mehr mir zu schenkenWohlan – noch hast Du Deine Pein.  So Lou Andreas Salome. A fascinating woman and life.Comes awarenessso let emotions be in all shape there to share.‘Freundschaft’ Rätsel sind wir allen. Myths and miracles That should be our -and yes mine and yours- approach to life and friendship:the wonderful journey […]

Tim Minchen: A human being with passion and no long term goal

Shares beauty

 

I associate like mad. A lot of things I hear and see make other things I heard, have seen and experienced pop up.

Not very decent to start with an other video when you want to show appreciation to a person and his work.

So I … I did. Just for the setting.

Take time and listen, look, read, think… 

But do ask you to take 25 minutes, perhaps more of your life to be inspired by Tim Minchen*.

 

It is always worthwhile to meet great new people. Most often they them selves and many others know that they are there already for a longer time… A little journey on the web brought me him.

I have given a lot of speeches myself and respect any other that take time to share. I might not like all of his opinions and approaches, but who cares.. I value this man a lot..

Start:

A lovely doctorate speech made me curious and I started searching for more about this man from (for me) down-under Australia.

The first video is a bit long. But still look at it and listen.

To support you. A brief outline of his 9 lessons in life.

  1. You do not need to have a dream
    1. Short term goals
    2. Be aware
    3. No long term dream
  2. Do not seek happiness
    1. Is like organism (where is the blood)
    2. Make others happy
  1. It is all luck
    1. To be here
    2. Lucky that
    3. Work hard, you did not made your power source
    4. Empathy is intuitive but something you can work up on
  2. Exercise
    1. Sport, yoga
    2. Take care of your body
    3. Depression defeated by exercise
  1. Be hard on your opinions (are like assholes.. everybody has one)
    1. Constantly examined
    2. Art can be connected to science
    3. Science is a term
  2. Be a teacher
    1. Amazing
    2. Share your ideas
  1. Define yourself by what you love
    1. Pro stuff not anti stuff.
    2. Express your appreciation
    3. Praise to who you admire
  1. Respect people with less power then you
    1. Judge people about how they treat the less powerful
  1. Do not rush
    1. You need to do what to do with rest of your life
    2. Take time, do not panic

Do not seek meaning…. i am a romantic…. You soon be death

One thing to do with empty existence: 

Fill it

Learn, Be proud, Share, be compassionate, Love, Sex, Art, climb mountains Ect.

Other nice things

 More about Tim

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tim_Minchin

 

 

viktor Frankl

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Realiteitstunnels en het einde van het ik en ander gedoe

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Something to think about:
de externe ervaring

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